Don't be that guy: the unwritten rules of home poker etiquette
If you want to get invited back, etiquette matters more than your win rate.
Whether you are in a garage game in Riverside or a condo game in San Diego, the same basics apply.
1. Act in turn
Do not fold, call, or announce action before it is your turn.
Out-of-turn action gives away information and slows every hand.
2. Do not splash the pot
Place chips cleanly in front of your stack so the dealer can verify action.
Throwing chips into the center creates confusion and unnecessary disputes.
3. Keep table talk about the game
Competitive talk is fine. Personal shots are not.
Good home games stay sharp and respectful at the same time.
4. Respect the house
You are in someone's home, not a casino floor.
- clean up after yourself
- keep noise under control when asked
- ask before bringing extra guests
- be easy to host
5. Reliability is part of etiquette
Last-minute no-shows hurt hosts and break table plans.
If you commit to a seat, show up. If plans change, give real notice.
PokerMeet tip: Reliability and respectful behavior improve your approval odds over time because hosts can see who is consistently easy to play with.
Related posts
How to adjust your strategy for a loose home game
Practical strategy adjustments for social, loose-action home poker games common across Southern California.
Read moreThe home game handbook: a beginner's guide to poker lingo
A quick-reference poker terms dictionary for new home game players, plus etiquette tips for smoother game nights.
Read moreFrom kitchen table to pro spread: the ultimate home game checklist
How to host a poker night with better setup, clearer rules, and a reliable guest list.
Read more